Mindset Advice for Flirting with Attractive Women

Do you want to learn how to flirt with women effectively? You aren't alone. Learning certain techniques and methods is not enough to achieve flirting mastery, though. Even with the best flirting techniques in the world at your disposal, you need to go in with the right mindset to have a chance at success. One the one hand, your sense of humor is a very important factor for flirting with women successfully. In fact, if you don't have a sense of humor and can't also make fun of yourself sometimes, you'll probably always struggle with attracting women spontanaeously. This does not mean that you need to be a stand-up comedian or a world-class entertainer, however. You don't need to be hilarious, you only need to be able to take things lightly, from time to time. The next important mindset factor is your self-worth. You must see yourself as a valuable person - one worth other people's time and attention. If you perceive yourself as high-value and are humorous at the same time, this will make you instantly more attractive to women.

These concepts of self acceptance and self value will make all the tips you receive on how to flirt effectively work in your favor. Here's how these two mindset factors can make you a flirting master:

1. Humorous Flirting

If you really want to know how to flirt effectively, your sense of humor must be intact. One of the reasons is that when you talk to women, especially if they are in a group, they will often start taking stabs at you in small ways. They might make jokes about how silly they think men are, or test your insecurities by making remarks about beer bellies and receding hairlines. If you show signs of getting pissed, they will continue on mercilessly until you walk off in shame.

React with humor to such a situation and maybe even point out to them that they are only making such remarks because they are flirting with you. When you laugh along with them, you have the freedom to pinch some cheeks or poke some sexy ribs inside the group. You can even pretend to be so pissed that you're storming off and taking a souvenir with you (you can put your arms around a girl in the group). Playful banter like this offers many opportunities for great flirting and it can also be a lot of fun.

2. You're the prize, not her.

If you just let yourself feel that you have enough value for women to fight over, your flirting game will change. Sometimes, it's easier to just sit back and let the women do the flirting. Once you've initiated contact and she is showing signs of interest, don't be afraid to back off a little and let her do the work. Be more intuitive to flirting, especially with touchy feely girls, and you might just realize how these girls are trying to grab your attention.